Small things that shape our life

Change!       We are accustomed to change in our lives as humans from birth. We are surrounded by different people in the different phases of our lives, and knowingly - unknowingly, we get emotionally attached to them. When we are around a certain set of people  related to work ,projects in general, our mind is set to be around them, and we feel comfortable and safe. It feels good to work together, and we develop our own little universe with them. It then becomes difficult for us to accept a change and move away from this established universe where we are comfortable. But life moves on and we have to take new opportunities and accept the changes that come along. It's good to settle, but you won't get the best and worst experiences of your life until you jump into something that you are completely unaware of. Exploring new places, new people will teach you some of the important lessons of life. You won't always get good folks around , you won't always get a good...

In todays era, where life and death have difference of seconds finding peace and satisfaction in the smallest thing is what people should aim for.Nowadays half of the persons life goes in developing their career ,be financially independent and be the best one in their specific domain.Everyone is rushing to get the highest CTC and have a lavish lifestyle, but achieving it should be our only aim.     The definition of satisfaction is different from person to person.One person is happy when he gets to eat in a restaurant while other becomes happy when he eats in a 5 star restaurant only.For one person working for hours and being able to buy things for the family gives happiness while the other considers spending time with your loved ones is what matters.Materialistic happiness can be bought but the time with your loved ones can never be bought...once its gone its gone.Sundar Pichai the CEO of Google has very well suggested that you should spend equal time with your family as your...

               They say the best gift our parents give us ,without asking is a sibling.The one who is our bestfriend, the dear one who is our family , the one with whom we can share all our secrets ..PS: Always under a commitment but yes parents are relaxed with the thought that once we are gone theyll be there for each other as a family and they will not feel alone.Shortly a overall theory of having a small family with two kids.       This seems so simple, but does this happen really the good way.Heres my story of a sibling.I have a small brother merely 4 years younger...and I have no good connection with him.We fight more and talk less.In our culture having son to take the family ahead is overated,they are treated way more delicatly , and this is when it all starts.More care from mom, more  love from grandma and easily available things.This starts creating diffeneces between two siblings. I was the nice one in the f...

Almost after  5years this year I got an opportunity to visit my village.Covid for the recent two years and eductaion for the rest didnt gave us the time to travel to our village during summer vacation.This year I had work from home and everything went well due to which we could stay for atleast a week.      And I am so glad I came,its well said that travelling and visiting places teaches us important lessons of life.The diversity in peoples lifestyle makes us appreciate our life with a new perspective.Though I didnt travel my village for  the first time but I visited the place after a long period and after a age in which I was old enough to care about things,and learn form peoples llifestyle.Every person has a different story , dreams in life and every body is working hard to achieve them.Their hardwork is no less than ours its just different,but definetly more satisfying and less stressful.     We think that working on machines for hours sitting in AC...

Its not about a human companion at all.           Its about all other things that we are with or want them to be with us.As we hit the pandemic in 2019 everybody got to shake hands with their hobbies they had once or discover some new hobbies .For me it was planting or gardening. My mom and dad loved gardening and we had a big garden at our place,lots of greenary and variety of flowering plants.At that time I was busy with my studies and college life and being in that house was a casual thing for me,I never really admired the beauty of the plants that we had,I do liked having them but didnt ever cared or planted my own stuff and growed them,Until one day we had to leave the place...It was difficult for me to leave  a place that I was born and grown till 20s it was like my companion for life,It had its special corners for everything.It was not a living being which could speak or express its feelings but it was there always,A place we could go when every...

 Placements!!!!!!!!! You don't realize the fear behind this word until you come to very end of your Engineering, The fourth year. Same was with me, I always thought we are good enough, technically sound as well as with good communication skills ,getting place wouldn't be that tough. When some of seniors would just cry for not getting placed after 3-4 months of continuous interviews, We would think why don't they prepare well accordingly what's the use of crying now, and are these interviews that though. It was my mistake I took those things that lightly, I never tried to understand the reason behind their continuous rejection. I used to talk with seniors, but Now I understand I only interacted with the one who got placed early. Their opinions were totally different. They always told do x and y that's enough for getting placed, we did the same and see we are placed in so renowed organization. That seemed so easy and we followed the same unless passed a year and came ...

Lockdown due to Covid-19 Pandemic has changed so many aspects of our life. From our daily lifestyle to our complete education system. Many changes made a drastic change in our habitual routine, some were too harsh but some made a good impact in our life. Communication was still alive between all our colleagues, schoolmates, and family members via phone calls and video calls, and meets. We, teenagers, being familiar with technology it was easy for us to adapt to the changes quickly. But during this whole period did you took a moment and tried to sit with your grandparents and made them explore this wonderful medium of communication?    I did it today. It was almost 5 months my Grandma had not gone out of our colony and visited her friend. Yes, my grandma's best friend, The one friend who was her constant from the days of their youth till now when both are in their 70's..their friendship, their bond has always remained the same and gave us the BFF goals. She was missing her a lo...